Today’s post is a follow up to the previous one on
energy extraction. That post dealt with
the larger picture of how our energy is extracted on levels far beyond what we
are aware of in our conscious reality. I’d
like to bring this whole issue into a more concrete form and give you some tools
to use to bring back your energy from people that you have become entangled
with.
When we become energetically entangled with another person,
it is always the result of a belief on either a conscious or unconscious level
that we are not whole and need to attach to another to complete ourselves. Please read the whole post on this subject. Unfortunately, this is commonly how your
everyday 3D relationships are constructed.
These could be between romantic or business partners, spouses, friends,
relatives or even between you and your favorite dry cleaner! Where there is an expectation of any kind,
the attachment and ensuing entanglement is bound to follow.
Once that attachment is created, energy flows back and forth
between the 2 parties. This is not only
the positive energy, but the heavy negative energy as well. According to each person’s needs and
expectations, the end result is an imbalance of “who gets what” in any
interaction. Because we live in a world
of polarities, one person ends up with more energetic resources, and the other
ends up with less. That’s just the way
it seems to be.
Not only does heavy and light energy flow back and forth, aspects
of a person can be given to the other or aspects of the other can be taken from
them. A classic example from years ago would
be the tradition of letting the husband take care of all of the finances, pay
the bills and balance the checkbook. It
wasn’t an issue of whether the wife couldn’t or didn’t know how to do
this. It just wasn’t her role in the marriage. She entrusted her husband with that part of
herself that may have had this ability. If she became widowed after many years of marriage, this ability would have been very difficult to recover energetically.
In an evolved relationship, each person strives to be whole
and complete within themselves. The
energetic interactions do not leave a deficit on either side. They look more
like the merging and then separating of globes of energy with each globe remaining
whole and intact. This is a true interaction of the hearts and core essence of
equals.
Here is the process for sorting out and retrieving your energetic
parts. This is a necessity because as
long as the other has a part of your energy, you are connected and the
imbalanced energy flow will continue to go back and forth.
First, do your best
to determine the neediness that has caused you to attach and entangle with another. There may be a common theme that applies to a
number of people, or there may be individual cases with their own issues. These
are the people that you have given a part of yourself away to. You may also have absorbed a part of them
into your energy field.
Then, make a list of the people involved on a piece of
paper. This list may end up being quite
long. I highly recommend that you go
back in time as far as you can remember to include childhood friends, teachers
and significant mentors. Also keep in
mind that just because the person in question is deceased doesn’t mean that
they shouldn’t show up on your list. I
have helped clients sort this out with deceased parents in particular, as energy
does not automatically get returned to you when the other party dies.
Now, work with each person on your list one by one. See an image of them standing in front of you. Set your intent to see or perceive your energy
that they may have in their energy field.
When I do this, I look for a glowing blob of energy in their body, as
this indicates energy that is yours and not theirs.
I then let them know that I am there to take back what is
mine. If the other person indicates
resistance, you are within your rights to demand that you get your energy back
and proceed anyway. Stretch your energetic arms over to the other person and reach
into their energy body and gather up the glowing blob of the energy that
belongs to you. Then pull it out of their body.
Thank the other person for the interactions and lessons learned.
As you retract your energetic arms that are now holding your
energy, pull that energy through a gold mesh screen to clear the other person’s
energetic signature off of it. You do
not want to bring that foreign signature into your body. After cleaning up your energy, squish it into
your own body in any place that feels appropriate to you. Welcome it home!
As an extra step here, if you feel that you have taken in any
of the other person’s energy, positive or negative, now is the time to gather
it up out of your body with your hands, pull your energetic signature off of
it, and send it back. This can actually
be done at any time during an interaction with any person if you feel that you
have been dumped on. It has been a long
time since I have been on the receiving end of this behavior, but back when
this would occasionally happen, I would wait until I was out of sight of the
person in question, gather up the houcha, and throw it back as hard as I
could. Return to sender. On some level, they always got the
message!
Do not feel that you have to go through your list all in one
sitting. Check off the people in
question as you sort out your energies so that you do not lose track of them. Add others as needed. This can be quite a project,
but a very fulfilling one indeed. Remember
that you are “re-membering” yourself and coming back to wholeness and
autonomy. Good luck!
Advice I am sure to follow through on tonight before my evening meditation. Thankyou.
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