My sister Julie and her friend Steve left on Sunday morning
after visiting me here in Cortez for 4 days. Everything
went fairly smoothly and a good time was had by all. We spent a day at Mesa Verde National Park exploring the
cliff dwellings and got caught in a very strong lightening storm. This prompted
the ranger at the site where we were to allow us to go into the restricted area
at the back of the ruin so that everyone could take shelter. We also had a successful mushroom hunting excursion
and picked enough of them to have for dinner that evening. There was a power outage on Friday night, and
we were all amazed at the view of the Milky Way and the brilliant night
sky. My guests live in Denver and never
get to see the stars without the usual city light pollution dimming the view. We were also in the midst of the annual
hummingbird migration, so my feeders were mobbed at all times and it was fun to
watch the feeding frenzy.
There were of course a few problematic moments when my
sister’s zingers were aimed my way, but none of them triggered any kind of reaction
within me. My equanimity held as if she
had never said anything to me at all. Generally,
I am the target of her ill will at some point during any visit. It did help to have her ex-husband Steve
here, as a good deal of her attention was focused on making sure that his needs
and wants were taken care of, but that is another story altogether!
As I see it, the main reason for my being able to hold my
energetic balance and not react to the zingers is twofold. First, I did a Quantum Sphere Healing session
on myself before the visit to focus on clearing the person to person karma that I
shared with Julie. Secondly, because I
no longer have any chakras, which serve as intake vortices for heavy energy, the
typical zingers had no entry point into my energy field. Yeah!!!!!
Instead of wasting time reacting as I normally did during
previous visits, I was able to do more observation of what was driving off
balanced states and thus problematic behaviors in both of them. This ranged from the morning coffee buzz wearing
off, to low energy levels due to not taking care of their caloric needs while
hiking, to carbohydrate or alcohol cravings that would drive cranky
behavior. No equanimity there!
On top of all of that, my cat freaked out and spent most of
their visit hiding under my bed. I guess
she knew what was up! So now the cat is
back to her normal self, her equanimity restored, and I have caught up with the
jobs around here before getting back to my client schedule and my routine. At least I now know that future visits with
my sister can be approached without trepidation on my part. Progress at last.
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