Death in Contrast

Long time readers of this blog know how passionate I am about the whole issue around the human death process.  In my opinion, the moment when we leave the body for the last time in this lifetime is by far the most important one of our whole incarnation here.   What happens at that moment will determine where we go from here, whether it will be for another go around on the wheel of reincarnation, or escaping this 4^th dimensional matrix once and for all. 

One of the healing processes that I offer is to perform the Shamanic Death Rites on the deceased of a relative who requests it on behalf of that person.  It is my pleasure and privilege to assist those who become stuck after death, as they can linger for many years as an earth bound spirit.  There are indicators that may signal the need for the Rites, such as for someone who died violently or suddenly, was ill for a long time, or who died well before their time.  If one is on morphine at the end, they are almost guaranteed to become stuck after death, as that drug lowers the vibration and makes it harder for them to attain the escape velocity that they need to enter the tunnel of light.  Morphine makes the body feel better, but it does not ease the torment of the soul! 

I do have to emphasize, however, that the best I can do for the deceased is to clear their energy field of the baggage that they took with them  upon death,  and vastly shorten the time that they spend between lifetimes so as to come back sooner to have another go at it!  I cannot get the soul of the deceased off of the wheel, as that is something that they must earn themselves. 

I recently had the privilege of doing the Shamanic Death Rites for both parents of a client.  Mom passed about 10 years ago, and Dad passed about a month ago.  BTW—the length of time between the passing and when I encounter the soul makes no difference. 

The first thing I do is to track and see if they have gone to the light.  If not, that means that they are earthbound.  Dad had multiple health problems and was on morphine at the end.  He was still in great turmoil when I found him, and had not gone to the light.  I promptly sent him and then waited about 10 days before finishing the Rites. 

Mom on the other hand died from a freak car accident and a reportedly slow death, and was quite conscious when I found her.  She almost made it to the tunnel of light, but did not enter.  She knew what had happened to her, and was quite conflicted about moving on as she had unfinished business and also wanted to watch over her children from the other side.  Her conscious choice was to stay behind.  I had a chat with her and told her that it was time for her to go, and then also sent her to the light, finishing the Rites about 10 days later. 

What a contrast between the two!  With Dad, it was more of what I usually find with a very ill person.  On the other side, he was very in his own space, suffering and confused.  With Mom, it was more like speaking to a person that was alive and in the room with me.  I have to say that this was a first for me, and quite gratifying. 

So this example shows the importance of preparing for your transition in the best way that you can.  On the flip side, the time and manner of your transition is predetermined before you incarnate according to your life plan.    

That does not mean that you do not have to prepare.  We each have several predetermined exit points from this lifetime.  Each may have a different mode of exiting!  By doing your inner work and keeping your vibration high, you may end up with the optimum way of transitioning out of your body.    

Of course, the ideal is that you bypass the tunnel of light and exit this 4^th dimensional matrix altogether.   I have mapped this pathway in my "Tools for Transition" workshop #6 entitled “The Journey Through Death and Beyond”.   You can access that here.To get to where you want to go, you have to know the way!  

For myself, my intent is to not only exit this 4D matrix, but leave this universe altogether, perhaps merging with the Source of All.  I have written about this extensively, and you can use the search bar at the top left of this page for more information on that.