Are you a blank slate?
This theme has come up with several clients in the past few weeks. I define a person as a blank slate when they
do not project a strong enough energy field or persona that other people can
read when making decisions on how to interact with them. It is a natural human tendency to want to fill
a vacuum. When you are perceived as
a blank slate, others naturally want to write on you!
If you are a blank slate, you may find that you are misperceived, misunderstood, often told what to do, ignored or overlooked, or
even accused of lying about something that you never even said. Others will either view you as invisible or react
with the other end of the spectrum by overlaying onto you their perceptions of who they think you are. How very frustrating, especially
if you have an inkling of how you want things to go and never achieve your
desired result. By the way, children for
the most part are all blank slates from birth.
A whole host of distortions can occur within the family unit if mom or dad
insist on writing on that blank slate in an unhealthy way. The effects of that can last a lifetime!
In order for you not to be a blank slate for others to write
on, several factors must come into play.
A
strong persona must be projected energetically. This has nothing to do with the words that
are coming out of your mouth. One can
insist and insist and still not be heard or acknowledged.
The strong persona comes from knowing who you are at your
core. By this, I mean that you are
embodying your healed and healthy inner state.
It means living a life of integrity.
If you are projecting your unhealed and wounded self, others will walk
all over you. This healing takes time
and deep introspection, and also the willingness to speak up from your core truth
when called to do so. If this is not
attended to, the result is a lot of confusion as to who you are in the
world. Others will take advantage of
that. So many of my clients have a
lot of difficulty coming up with an issue for their healing session because
they truly do not know who they are. It
can be a challenge for me at the start of the session not to interpret their
issues for them, as that is not my job.
One way to beef up your core identity is by making
appropriate decisions when needing to make a choice. Make all choices from a state of integrity
and not a state of woundedness. Say what
you mean and mean what you say, and stick with your choice. This is a very symbiotic exercise, as by
making appropriate choices, your core identity will be strengthened. At the same time, your stronger core will
help you generate more appropriate choices.
They go hand in hand. It goes without saying that a good connection to
your higher guidance can help to direct these choices. Also, pay attention to the decisions that are driven
by your inner woundedness. “I want this
and I want that.” Funny that I am writing this the day after Black
Friday, where the wants of the ego reign supreme. Black Friday has become a 3 day weekend
affair, and has even oozed over into the UK!
Most importantly, for others to acknowledge who you truly
are and react appropriately to your energy, they must perceive it
strongly. This is strictly an energetic
state which does not depend on the words coming out of your mouth. It is something that you embody. As you engage in deep introspection and make
contact with and heal your wounded parts, your vibration naturally goes up and
your core naturally expands. Others will
read this as your firm identity and will not feel the need to overwrite
you. They will know where you are coming
from at all times. You will not be
messed with as much, if at all, by either humans or negative entities.
I do believe that we as humanity are coming to a crescendo
here on the planet. There is an event on the horizon where we will be greatly
challenged in many ways. George
Kavassilas and Robert Monroe have spoken of this in addition to many
others. When this time comes, we need to
be firm in our core identities so as not to fall into someone else’s agenda for
us. This will be a great challenge for
many, and many will not succeed in hanging on to who they are. I encourage each of you reading this to continue
your inner work and the clarification of who you are. Be congruent, which means being the same on
the inside as you are on the outside. What
you see is what you get. Walk your talk
and be a force to be reckoned with at all times!
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