For all of the humans on this planet, the circumstance
surrounding their birth always plays a major role in how they deal with life
from that point onwards. I am talking
here about the actual physical birth process with all of its drama, trauma,
medical malfunctions, long labor, or on the other hand, the natural birth that
comes off without complications. Aside
from the physical aspect of the birth, we can add to this any violence or accidents that the
mother experiences while pregnant, health issues of the mother or fetus, thoughts
of an impending adoption, unwanted pregnancy and a whole host of other issues. It’s a wonder that any of us come out of the
womb in a “normal” state, whatever that may be!
Whatever energetic pattern that is experienced at one’s
birth gets imprinted on the baby and then dictates how that person approaches
new things, works through problems or trusts others to name a few. The pace at which they deal with life can
also be imprinted. Let me give you an example.
If the mother experienced a very fast birth, that baby, and then adult,
may approach life at top speed ignoring many of the subtleties and hidden aspects
of life that they need to pay attention to.
Or, on the other hand, that person may spend their whole life trying to
put on the breaks and go slowly because that original trauma freaked them
out!
In my healing practice, I track back to the moment of birth
if necessary, and make energetic corrections.
Then, I drag the new healed state forward to the client’s
energy field in present time. It’s like redoing the whole
process so that the person can move forward with a new patterning.
The byproduct of traumatic births can be fairly obvious, but
this week I worked on a young man who was born via Caesarean. I had often wondered what the life imprinting
of this type of birth would look like in a client, and it certainly proves to
be much more subtle while at the same time just as dysfunctional. This client is in his late 20’s, whereas most
of my clients are much older than that. Caesareans
have become much more popular in the last few decades, so I suspect that I will
be seeing more of this in new clients. I
have encountered just a few up to this point.
I would not necessarily consider this kind of birth
traumatic, depending on the circumstances, but there is an imprint
nonetheless. The birth for the baby is
probably very easy if the mother is not in distress. Imagine being gently lifted out of the womb
and going through whatever they do to babies right after birth. No muss, no fuss, no struggle. Sounds nice but here is the problem. This young man is floating his way through
life. He has an idea of what he would like to
achieve, but it is not very concrete.
His free time is spent running with his dog, hanging out at the beach
with his buddies, reading a book, and trying to keep his veggies growing in his
garden. He does not like his job, but is
hesitant to look for something more suitable, if he even knew what that was. Engaging deeply with life is a problem for
him.
Now, there could be other reasons for this way of life, but
this all makes sense to me. It’s not
that there is anything very wrong here, but it doesn’t seem to be a very
interesting and exciting way to live. There is much dissatisfaction and discontent,
but not the energy and passion to shift that.
My sense is that the normal birthing process with its pushing and
yelling, excitement and anticipation, is what imprints the baby with the passion and energy for life and the motivation to move forward in a dynamic way
as they grows up. With the
Caesarean birth, the baby misses out on that imprinting.
I will be on the lookout for more clients with this issue to
see if there are commonalities. This may come sooner than I think, because in the
next week, I have 2 new clients that were born within several months of this young
man, same year. Now what kind of
coincidence is that?
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