When we are talking about entanglements and attachments, the
next level up from our one on one interactions is the participation in group
dynamics. A small sampling of groups
that a person can be involved in includes your own family, various clubs or
service organizations, educational institutions, religious groups, spiritual
groups, financial institutions, corporations and governments. Even “humanity” is a group. The challenge is to maintain your autonomy
and sovereignty within the group, which can be sometimes difficult at
best.
When you join a group, you fall under the umbrella of the
patterning for the group energy. It is an energetic map that dictates how the
people in the group interact to share energetic resources, where these
resources come from, where they go and also how everyone in the group entangles
to facilitate this flow of energy. These
resources can be financial or physical or even vital life force. The patterning for the group is always
created by a person, whether it is through an official document like a charter or contract,
or through the personal patterning of the group leader.
No matter the size or purpose of a group, including a family
group, they all have some elements in common.
Keep in mind that each person in the group will fall into their
designated role according to their unconscious patterning and the energetic map
of the group. There is always a black
sheep or the “bad one” that is the recipient of the negativity of others in the
group, and the “golden child” who can do no wrong. We have caretakers, know-it-alls, worker
bees, teacher’s pets, slackers and go to people who can be depended on to fix
any mess to name a few. Does this sound
like your family, perhaps????
I would like to use spiritual groups as an example, as this
is where I have had the most experience.
Every such organization has a leader who is the person at the apex of an
energetic pyramid structure. Energetic
resources flow up to this person from those below him or her in the pyramid. Heavy or negative energy flows downwards in
this arrangement, and much ends up with the designated black sheep. There is no way to keep a balance here, with
no equality amongst group members.
Why do people put up with this? Most are unaware of the dynamics, as all of
this takes place on the sub and unconscious levels. We are hooked and hoodwinked according to the
needs that we are looking to have met within the group. Are we looking for a parental figure to make
up for a mother or father who were not able to step up to the plate when we
were young? How about the warm fuzzy
family we never had? What about promises
of financial prosperity, as is promoted by network marketing companies, whose
business plans are also based on the energetic pyramid? And unfortunately, what about the promise of
attaining spiritual enlightenment if you just follow the leader.
Even when we do wake up and realize what is going on, most
of us are OK with that as long as we perceive that we are getting our needs met
and that the bad things are happening to someone else and not to us. I had that experience with a spiritual group
I was briefly involved with in the late 1990’s.
In a nutshell and in retrospect, the group leader was siphoning energy, soul memories and genetic information from her followers in the guise of creating an
energetic map for the ascension of humanity.
Just recently, on behalf of a client, I tracked where this information
was going. The final recipient was an
extraterrestrial race living off planet.
The group leader was the middleman for this transaction. Whether she knew it or
not, I do not know.
To add insult to injury, when the follower was drained, the
leader cooked up an excuse to throw them out of the group. The remaining followers were instructed to
dump all of their negativity, ill will, shame and blame on the ejected
member. In the short time that I was in
this group, I saw this happen many times, and was unfortunately OK with it
until it happened to me! The result for
me was that I became extremely ill and depleted, and took quite a long time to
recover, in addition to loosing several close friends who were still in the
group. Sounds like a cult, doesn’t
it? The positive result is that I
embarked on my shamans path shortly afterwards, which has led me to where I am
right now.
Even though this is an extreme example, goofiness like this
happens in all groups to some extent.
The solution is for you to keep your awareness levels sharp, and be
willing to do some deep inner reflection as to why you are looking to a group
to fill in your missing pieces or fulfill a need. If you do engage with a group, do it with
your eyes wide open.
Fortunately, many people now know that to evolve
spiritually, we do not need a spiritual leader or a guru to be the intermediary
between our divine eternal essence and ourselves. My hope is that we will soon see groups of
spiritually self empowered people gathering together to work on behalf of our
Earth Mother and humanity.
Absolutely stare the same perspective, especially the last sentence Carla! Hopefully get to meet you all in person in near future. Be wonderful when we all do, say yourself, George, Sienna Lea, Kelly La Sha, Mark Passio, Patricia Farringdon, Jolly Dee and many more come together. Wooohhh :-)
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